To Kiss on the First Date Or to Wait?

Now there is a question posed over and over. Have you ever heard a definitive answer to that one? Actually, I don't believe there is one... unless the answer is, "it depends Click Here."

Of course it depends. Upon what does it depend? Taken to the basic elements of the formula, it depends on the two of you. Kissing is still a one-on-one event. It is too often considered a prelude, and not the main event. That diminishes the impact and the value of the kiss. It makes it a part of the sex act in a way. May I be the first to observe that that is a good thing, and like all good things it should be savored and not devoured.

If you want the kiss to stand on its own; if you want the kiss to make her weak in the knees, to take her breath away, then the kiss itself must be the main event. Main event kissing is an art. As with any art form, the skill set of the practitioners, the motivation and the outcome vary. Could Leonardo da Vinci have painted the Mona Lisa without having developed his skills first? Could Michelangelo have painted the Sistine Chapel without assistance?

Now there is a question posed over and over. Have you ever heard a definitive answer to that one? Actually, I don't believe there is one... unless the answer is, "it depends."

Of course it depends. Upon what does it depend? Taken to the basic elements of the formula, it depends on the two of you. Kissing is still a one-on-one event. It is too often considered a prelude, and not the main event. That diminishes the impact and the value of the kiss. It makes it a part of the sex act in a way. May I be the first to observe that that is a good thing, and like all good things it should be savored and not devoured.

If you want the kiss to stand on its own; if you want the kiss to make her weak in the knees, to take her breath away, then the kiss itself must be the main event. Main event kissing is an art. As with any art form, the skill set of the practitioners, the motivation and the outcome vary. Could Leonardo da Vinci have painted the Mona Lisa without having developed his skills first? Could Michelangelo have painted the Sistine Chapel without assistance?