So is it a great idea to kiss on the First Date? I don't mean just a good night peck on the cheek, but a long passionate one. Well, the first date kiss, if it happens between two people who are really fond of each other and think that they may have found someone special can be a very exhilarating experience and one that should not be taken too lightly.
On the other hand, there are times when the first date kiss is a bad idea when one party is not comfortable with it and is forced upon, especially when the initiator had too much alcoholic drink. When that happened, you can jolly well kiss your date goodbye for the rest of your life.
Furthermore, you should not kiss someone if you are not sure you want to see that person again. In doing so, you may lead your date on that you are still interested to carry on the relationship and that is morally very wrong! If you don't like being led on, then don't lead someone else on because you will be hurting that person and what goes around will come around.
Then again, if both of you find yourself very much attracted to each other, a kiss will just seems like a natural consequence and it should happen naturally and there should not be any awkward moments. However, it is best to keep the kiss light as if the kiss is too passionate, your date may think that you are doing this to your every other date even though it may not be true.
There is another reason for keeping the kiss light. It shows that you are in control of your emotion and respect the other party. You will also leave your date wanting for more and to leave you for the night with self respect and dignity. This in turn shows that you have respect for your partner too and will be appreciated.
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